Other people can see the comments you write to others (and that others write to you). However, they are a little disjointed and piecing together a conversation is hard for everyone other than the two people involved. If you want to have a private conversation, send a private message (click on "send message" - where that is depends on what page you're on).
If you click on the top menu-on members- along the top Clay chooses some to be featured! I have never been featured and here you go!!! Don't get me wrong-I don't care- your charm never ceases to amaze me!! Even over the net people feel it!!